I can’t believe how some people would go as far as making up stories to degrade someone else and make themselves look great.
I, together with my partner and son went to our church’s worship service last Sunday, February 26, 2017. It lasted for almost 2 hours then we had our weekly life group meeting. Our son was in the children’s room while Jhon and I were in the meeting for 30 minutes.
There was a person assigned to look after the kids in the room, however, after our 30-minute life group meeting, we went to the children’s room and didn’t see our son. Jhon rushed outside to look for our son and to his shock, Jaden was at the edge of the stairway. He could’ve fallen down the stairs if Jhon didn’t see him right away. The person who was assigned to look after the kids just smiled at us and blamed our son for running around!
Anyway, just last night, I found out that a relative of Jhon’s saw Jaden at the edge of the stairway and didn’t even bother to take him back to the room. He went telling other people that Jhon saw Jaden at the edge of the stairway and didn’t mind him! That is just plain bullshit! I was behind Jhon so I saw how he rushed to the stairway when he saw our son there. I just don’t understand how his relative could spread false stories about him.
Jhon’s relative, who is a year older than him, just had his 1st daughter who is only 6 months old but he talks and acts as if he is the best dad in the world, and he always criticizes the way Jhon takes care of our son. I can’t accept how he degrades Jhon’s parenting skills just to make himself look like a great dad, like he’s the ONLY good dad in the whole world. Our son is 23 months old, his daughter is only 6 months old. It only means that we have more experience on parenting compared to him, but he thinks he’s the only one who’s alwas right. I hate such arrogance and hypocrisy.
Each parent has his/her own way of taking care of his/her child, so it’s very wrong to criticize and compare and spread false stories about other parents. No parent ever wants their child to be in danger so let’s just mind our own family.